Today in the Gospel Jesus is telling His disciples about the kind of leadership He wants to see in His Church. But they seem deaf to what He says. He has told them already that His leadership will involve suffering and He will tell them a third time as they journey to Jerusalem. The disciples don’t understand why the Messiah should suffer and they are afraid to ask Him because it is a message they don’t want to hear. The conversation has been about who is the greatest among them, who wields the most power. Who is the top dog? Jesus knows His disciples are caught up in this desire for power, so He challenges them. Leadership in His Church must be based on service, so the one who wants to be first must be last. Jesus tells them they must learn to welcome not just the powerful but these insignificant children. If they do, they will be welcoming Jesus himself.
Jesus wants strong leadership for His Church. But He wants a leadership that does not dominate and insist on rank. It is a leadership that will inevitable come into conflict with alpha-male attitudes and, like Jesus, will have to suffer as it serves the weaker members of the community. In our parishes and homes, welcoming the “little children” will mean giving time for those who are sick, disabled, poor, mentally ill and vulnerable in all sorts of ways. In our competitive and often ruthless society, Christ is more likely to be found at the bottom of the social pile than at the top.